If you are frustrated with your problem of premature ejaculation,
you are not alone. The problem is that you feel alone. No guy wants to talk
about, and definitely not admit, that they suffer from not being able to
control their climax. Rest assured, however, that there is not a man alive who
has not had a problem cumming too early. If they tell you they haven’t, they
are lying. The key is to try to minimize the number of times that it is
happening by paying close attention to the things that lead up to it.
Duh? We all know what leads up to premature ejaculation, it’s no
secret. But, there are specific things that can be done that will give you ways
to last longer. Most of them involve learning to plan ahead and being in full
control of what you are doing. It means not giving into the act, not vacating
your mind and allowing your penis to take over. If you are like most men, you
know ahead when there will be a potential that you will have sex. Taking steps
to prepare yourself for any situation will help to stop you from the
embarrassment of coming too early.
If you know that you are going to have sex, making sure to
ejaculate prior to sexual intercourse is a great way to help to curb the
intensity. Make sure, however, that you are giving yourself enough time for
recovery. What would be even worse than premature ejaculation would be the
inability to get it up. That can be way more embarrassing, and you wouldn’t
want to explain why. Another way to head up climaxing too early is by bringing
props like creams and gels that may have just enough effectiveness to buy you a
little time.